Sunday, 17 April 2016



I think it is only right that we understand what wealth easy before we can acquire, failure to do so will make it impossible or difficulty to acquire it. One of the reasons many of us have problems related to wealth is that we are all hung up about the money. We have erroneously equated having wealth with having money.
Money is merely a “symbol” of value or store of value
There are many types of “value” available to you and money is just one of them.
Exchanged for what you want in your life.
You need not worry about how to get money to create the life you want. That kind of mindset is the reason a lot of people don’t have money, there are a lot of ways to approach this.
Am not going to be teaching you how to get money but am going show you how money comes into our lives.
Your only job at this moment is to know the kind of life you want to live the most, find those things in your life that bring you joy, and then focus on those things. That’s it.
Money should not be first priority when you want to become wealth or rich, you need to change your mind here.
Your real desire is NOT the money but what’s on the other side of the money. It’s the things money can give or bring us. Money itself, has no value unless we are all in agreement that it does. It is just metal or paper that Symbolizes value that can be exchanged. If you are not using it to exchange value for something, it simply does not have any value! It is just the “potential” for exchange. What you desire is what you acquire in exchange for that money. Your desire might be to travel the world, buy a new and expensive car, pay your bills, take your chilled to school, to be free
Am sure there are something you have right now that money cannot buy, some people thank money is what buys happiness not knowing that they can be happy even without money. How would you feel is your desire was to be happy and you thought money was the only thing that can make that happen and once you acquired the money you still felt the emptiness in you? Money can somehow make you happy but your main focus should be happiness not money, if there are bills that need to be paid don’t focus on money to pay the bills but just focus on the bills that need to be paid.
But if you decide ahead of time that “money” is the one and only way that you are going to have these bills paid, then you are also very likely to start looking at “logical” ways in your life through which this money will be delivered.
This even further restricts the manner in which your ultimate desire could be fulfilled. You will start to look at your job, a business, the lottery, etc. as potential avenues for this money to come. You are just complicating things by creating all kinds of unnecessary vibrations about the “rules of delivery” when it is not your concern at all!
In fact, if you “ask” for something, then immediately try to figure out how you are going to get it, you have effectively revoked the request. You are saying, “Never mind, Universe! I’ll figure it all out for myself.” And then you suffer over why it is being delivered so slowly or not at all! You are trying to intellectualize the process.
How to get wealthy
We talk about Giving and that how you give directly determines what you receive, many times over. If you look at some the richest and wealthiest people on the planet for instance bill gates, his wealth did not just come from nowhere neither did he inherit it, all wealth comes as a desire to help people, if you can find a problem people are failing to solve I promise you that is the best and honest way to be rich. Look at the creator of Facebook. If we want to receive anything in our lives – and that can be money, relationships or just “stuff” – we have to provide value to the Universe. We do that in the form of a service. It is what we are doing “most of the day” that is going to dictate what we our lives will be. As will smith likes to say “if you are not making anyone’s life better then you are wasting your time”.
Don’t look for ways to make money but look for ways to solve a common problem people face and then let people pay you for your services.
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Hey are you the type of blogger that never seems to find the perfect theme for your blog no matter how much you browse theme websites you just don’t seem to find that theme that catches your eye.
You change your themes more often than you publish articles and all other bloggers are around you seem to have the perfect themes for their blogs. Every time you checkout A theme on other websites and try to find out the developers of those themes but when you download and install the theme it does not look as good at it does on other that you ? If your answer is yes then you are not the only one failing to find the best thing for your website, and in this post am going to help you find the best theme for your blog. But before we do that I want you to look at some of the qualities that a good blog theme should have.

Mobile friendly

If you are one of those that rely on traffic from Google search engine, before you choose a template you should make sure that that template or theme is mobile friendly. Websites that are mobile friendly have a higher ranking on Google search engine, Google does not care whether you have high quality content on your website as long as your website is not mobile friendly your site ranking on Google search will drop.

Attractive (well designed)

Human beings are natural attracted to attractive things and when a blog is well designed it looks attractive and more professional, readers are more like to come back that blog. An attractive blog makes readers or internet safer feel at home and will reduce your bounce rate in turn.

Properly configured email subscription buttons and forms

We don’t create blogs to have new visitors are the time, we want our blog to have readers and follows, how can we achieve that if our blog templates email subscription forms are poorly configured? You should not overlook this feature when choosing your blog templates or themes.

Load faster

No reader wants to visit a blog that takes time load, your visitors might even suspect your blog has malware that’s why it takes time to load. This will also affect your search engine ranking in a negative way.

Supported and updated

am afraid this only applies to premiums templates and themes why would a free theme  developer put in some much work supporting and updating a free theme, if they told the theme is supported and is regularly updated they probably lying to you. There are a lot of hackers out there and once they discover some vulnerabilities in a theme it can easily be hacked so the developers have to provide there users with updates containing those fix.



There are a lot of other features that make up a good blog template or theme and should also not be overlooked these include security, I doubt this feature is available in free themes because we don’t know the real attention that theme was designed could be for fun or the developers have hidden some code that redirects traffic to their websites or spreads malware online and if Google notice that your templates has hidden malware code you will be penalized.
If you want Good themes that are free then you can use default Google blogger and WordPress themes. Though they are not attractive you can be guaranteed that your site is safe, loads faster too but if you feel your site needs something a little bit more attractive I would recommend you buy a premium theme click here to find out why premium themes are better than free theme whether you are a word press or bloggers user.
Now that you know that features that make up a good theme I trust that you will make the best choice, what are some of the features that you consider when choosing a theme for your blog?
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successful people habits

Success isn’t a cloth you get to put on when you feel like and take it off when you don’t, you have to cultivate certain habits and these habits have to become a way of life, and it all starts from the way we think. Below is are some of the things successful people did before they become successful and still do that’s will they are still successful.
It is not secret that going to bed early gives your body enough rest so that you may have enough energy for tomorrow, rising up early makes everything better, puts you in a good mood. The boy is most active 4 hours after waking up. Though some people that are successful like Curtis Jackson famously known as 50 cent say they don’t sleep at all, they think while they are sleeping someone out there is working there ass off.
“If you do hard things your life will be easy but if you do easy things your life will be hard. “Reading books on easy and quick ways to be successful does not make you successful, if you want to be success try going to college or investing in reading books like think and grow rich. think and grow rich does not teach you easy ways to get rich if it did everyone that read the book would be rich now.
Successful people read a lot, if you want to be a successful person read success books. They not only read books but take notes. Bruce Barton’s for instance author of the man nobody knows usually takes notes when he reads books and that is why his mind is fueled with rich ideas that’s according to Alex Osborn author of your creative power, it is by far the best book on creativity I have ever read, it teaches you how to unleash your creative power
Successful people are risk takers because they know that by not making a choice you have already made your choice. They do what they love even when they don’t know how economy conditions will be like in the future, you don’t need to see the whole road before you start your journey. Steve jobs tells us that, “you cannot connect the dots looking forward, and you can only connect the dots looking backwards.
Successful people know this better than anyone else, the 5 people you hang out with most of the time have a huge impact on your life, if you hang out with losers you will eventually become a loser unconsciously you will pick up their habits and attitudes about life.Being around successful people makes you act like those successful people.
Act Like a Success, Think Like a Success: Discovering Your Gift and the Way to Life's Riches
Successful people believe in themselves, before you can achieve anything in life you need to have the confidence that you have what it takes to pull it off or people will easily talk you out of it but in some situations it’s good to humble yourself.
Successful people have trained their minds to see the best out of every situation, entrepreneurs know this better than anyone, they are positive minded and they practice positive thinking. Even when they are recruiting new people to work with they try to find those that are positive minded.
“Success comes with prior preparation” --confussious successful people plan ahead, they don’t just do things randomly. They don’t invest their time in ventures that don’t look promising and another thing is that successful people do not procrastinate they do things, “a journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step” --Gandhi
People that multi task lose focus on the mind task at hand. Learning c++ and java script at the same time will be harder than learn them one at a time and giving up is every easy
All successful people like to give back, if you have noticed almost all successful people are philanthropists. Bill gates, mark Zuckerberg, Wallen buffet. When you become successful try to remember where you came from, the people in your environment helped you become who you are.there are a lot of ways successful people give back are some of them is by writing about their success to help others
Hope you like our top 10 things successful people do, if you have any other points you feel should be added to this list, I would love to read them in them in the comments below. Thank you


secrets to being happy

Steve jobs once said if you live every day of your life as if it were your last one day you will be right.
Life is the most amazing gift of all, we must understand that happiness is a state of mind and not a prize that you are going to win someday. If you are happy or unhappy today it’s, because you choose to be in that state of mind. Bad things happen to us most of the time but it’s what state of mind we choose that will determine how we feel, when we look at the two laws psychologists say govern our state of mental well-being, these two laws determine whether we live a happy life or not. First is the law of substitution states that the mind can only hold one thought at a time, you can’t think of both happy and unhappy thoughts at a time and the power to make that choice is yours.
Love is a very amazing feeling which is why it is on the top of the how to live happy list. If you ever feel like you falling in love with someone don’t hold yourself back just fall, when we are in love our body produce hormones called dopamine same drug found in chocolate, yes you head me right our body produces dopamine, this hormone makes us happy and if we are happy we naturally feel good about ourselves.
Don’t miss understand this statement, by live like you are dying I don’t mean you should make the wrong choices as if there are no consequences tomorrow. The thought of living every moment like it were our lasts motivates us to do things we really wanted to do but because of fear and other things we were not able to do these things, we have nothing to lose. Doing the things we really want or love to do makes us happy, not doing them brings regret and that makes us unhappy people.
I know people who worry much about the future, they worry if they are going to get married or die alone, whether they are going to be successful or not. Some people are even scared of growing old. The mistake they are making is living in the future instead of dwelling on the present. Thinking too much about the future makes people unhappy because it brings such things like anxiety. The bible even tells us not to be anxious about tomorrow.
What you can do when you find yourself worrying about the future
• Snap your fingers ,snapping fingers really brings you back to the present, psychologist use this trick to wakeup people who are in a hypnosis state
Gratitude is the very important component of happiness, I mentioned that live in the present is very important to live a happy life. If we were grateful about what we have there would be no reason of thinking too much about our future .all the negativity in our lives comes us a result of not being grateful for all the big and little things that we have. The best book I have ever read on gratitude is the magic by Rhonda byrne which I bought for mum on her 55 birthday, one of the best life coaches of all time, who is also produce of the documentary the secret. Read this book and it will change your life and make gratitude a way of life.
How to practice gratitude
• Write a lift of 20 things you are grateful for
• Say thank you at least three times every day for each of those
Loving yourself makes you live life with confidence because you know and accept all your strengths and weakness. It also goes down to being grateful again here because by loving yourself you are being grateful for what you have again. If you don’t love and appreciate yourself other people will also find it hard to love and appreciate you. This will in turn affect your social life, your social life plays a big role on how you find.
If you if don’t love self click here to learn how to build a better self-image of yourself and you will know that you are worth more than you thought, how do you stoop yourself that low.
Not loving yourself is a sin itself because you are God did not create you will enough and the bible says we are fearfully and wonderfully made so stop reading anything tells you how you should look or dress, you are unique so accept that.
This should have been the first thing I wrote. There is no happy life without the word positivity, happy people all share the things I have listed above and most all they are positive people, you should make positivity a way of life, train your mind to see the best out of everything and everyone. Don’t be pessimistic or skeptical. I have found that Joel Osteen has done more sermons are positive than anyone, my favorite of all being detoxing the mind, he has also written a lot of motivation books you can find here.
If you love yourself in the first place then comparing yourself to others should not be in the body is perfect, most of the time, we like comparing ourselves to our friends, saying things like maybe if I was a lot taller like him I would feel more confident not knowing that the same friends admire a lot of things about us too. Comparing yourself to others is like comparing two cars that were clearly designed for different purpose. What you have is what you need if you don’t have it you probably don’t need it.
Exercising should be a way of life, it’s not easy to be happy when our health is at stake, we need to keep our body healthy and fit, it has been discovered that people that exercise often are less likely to be stressful or anxious. And just the fact that you exercise just shows how much you love yourself and you naturally feel good about yourself hence you are happy.

what are some of your secrets to living a happy life


Have you ever heard the quote “whatever the mind can conceive it can achieve” Napoleon hill, take it from him, Napoleon hill author of the bestselling book think and grow rich is believed to have influenced more people into success than any other person in history.
If you were to start studying rich and successful people like napoleon hill did, you will discover that they all share one thing in common. They conceived ideas in their mind before they materialized them. Successful people understand that everything around as is energy and energy can neither be created no destroyed but only changes form. Every great invention that has ever been invented was either a developed idea or an idea that was inspired by a different idea.
In this post am going to share with you have to turn your dreams into reality, but before you do that you need to understand the law of attraction.
There is a fundamental law of attraction in the universe that guides people’s lives and is the underlying power behind all things.

How to conceive ideas and achieve them
In the book think and grow rich, Napoleon hill says all achievements, all earned riches have their beginning in an idea. If you are ready for the secret, you already possess one half of it and therefore you will recognize the other half the moment it reaches your mind. If you have no dreams and no ideas, am afraid you are a long way from home.
The word idea would not be their without thoughts and thoughts don’t just come from nowhere we think them. The bible even tells us in proverbs 23:7 that whatever a man thinketh so is he. If you want to become rich and successful plant thoughts of success and riches in your mind, you cannot be rich by think poverty all the time.
Success lies in the positive thinking that there is nothing that can’t be done. “Whether you tell yourself I can or I can’t, either way you are right”—Henry fold, Henry fold understood this concept better than anyone else. Read page 160 of think and grow rich get more knowledge on this.
Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.
Buddha understood this when he said “If anyone says that a man or woman must reap in this Life according to his present deeds, in that case there is no religious life, nor is an opportunity afforded for the entire extinction of sorrow. But if anyone says that what a man or woman reaps in this and future lives accords with his or her deeds present and past, in that case there is a religious life, and an opportunity is afforded for the entire extinction of a sorrow.
You had all these powerful dreams and ideas in your mind, what’s the first step to letting them out into the real world? Writing them down is the first step to materialize your dreams and ideas.
Believe everything you have written down is possible, faith is very important, helps us think of things that are not yet as if they already are.
Each and every day before you sleep or when you work up in the morning, affirm to yourself that which you want to be. Say that which you want to be as if you were, if you want to be rich tell yourself that ‘’I am rich” there is power in the words I am, if you want to be healed tell your I am healed and as you do these over and over your mind will accept it.
And lastly make sure whatever it is you are trying to achieve is right, some people dream of robbing banks, hacking other people’s accounts. All these can be dreams just make sure that whatever you are doing is right, it benefits you and other people. If it not it might affect the whole process.
Download books supporting the law of attraction and everything I just explain
• Bible
 Wealth beyond reason by Bob  
 Your creative power by Alex Osborn
• Think and grow rich
• The secret by Rhoda byrne


how to be creative

Are you are artist ,writer or just a blogger whose trying to harness their creative faculties but each and every time you get your tools to start doing your creative work ideas don’t seem to be flowing? You searched the internet for ways to be creative and yet nothing seems to be helpful. Today am guy to share with you some of the ways in which I have unleashed my creative potential, if I was not creative this post would have been here and you would be reading it, the fact that it’s here means it came out of someone’s brain.
First of all you should understand that your environment plays a big part in your creativity, try to surround yourself around things that you think will help unleash that creative power. If you are a blogger that has run out of articles to write about, reading other peoples blog post will sure help you come up with something awesome as well but am not saying you should start copying other writers blog post but you can add some flavor to them, like they say new ideas are born from other ideas Alex Osborn shares his thoughts on that point in the book your creative power were he shares how with us how to unleash our creative power.
The ancient Greeks wrote down three laws of association contiguity, similarity and contrast, be contrast they mean nearness meaning closeness of things like when you see a very small shoe and you think of a bay right there and then, by similarity that’s straight forward like when I see the brand Samsung it automatically reminds me of my laptop, and by contrast it’s like the opposite of things like when you see a boy and you think of a girl or you see a midget and think of a giant, understand how these laws affect your creativity can make you a very creative person the last 19 centuries humes’ law of “cause and effect” was added. Every time you did something you thought of the cause of that action, like when you yawn it signified hunger or being tired and sleepy.
Science behind creativity
Our bodies realize a hormone called dopamine and this hormone plays a very big role in our creativity. You are more likely to be creative after watching, listening or reading something that entices you, when something entices you chemicals like dopamine get released from your brain and you suddenly feel like doing something genius at that moment, people that luck this hormone are less creative and luck the zeal to do anything at all, this is why some people rely on drugs to help them become creative.
New ideas are born from other ideas
Creativity is so much based on association, it’s very hard or nearly impossible to come up with an idea that was not born from another idea, most of the powerful ideas we see people sharing today are ideas that were born from other ideas people just developed them. When you look at twitter, it was not some new idea nobody knew about because by then we already had another social network called Facebook, twitter is just a bit different but almost saves the same purpose, and again when you read the back ground of face it says mark stole the idea from the twins while at Harvard and decided to develop it, I don’t know how true that is, but if you were curious enough you can dig into that and find out where the twin got that idea you will find that the sources goes on and on.
Don’t just sit there and try to think about how to build the next big blog or social network if possible look at the things that are already there and try to develop on them. That is why it is very important to read books, the laws of association become very handy and in no time you will unleash your creative power.
Everything I just share above is long term creativity, the more you associate yourself with new things them the more chances you have of getting creative. It’s like copying all kinds of files to a hard drive and when you search for a certain file with a certain key word all the files with that name will pop up in the search, our brain work in the same way.
Watching motivation videos
There are a lot of videos on YouTube that will put you in that mood start pursuing your dreams
Watch mind movies and TV shows
Good example of movies that will instantly get you started are
Limitless (movie/series), Psych, Inception, Numbers, The internship, prison break, suits, the mentalist


No doubt there are a lot of romantic novel writers out and some names are just so hard to forget considering the emotions evoked first time we watched them. Nicholas sparks has written about 18 books some of which have been adapted into film with multi-million dollar box office. When I watch a movie that was written by Nicholas sparks I would know it before the movie even not ashamed to admit that more than twice of watching his movies, I shade quite a few tears. His is one of the few gifted writers with the ability to evoke emotion and make people shade few tears of joys while reading his books or watching his movies. Some of you may not know him but am sure those that have read his books or watched the movies based on his novels will remember the moment I start mentioning some of Nicholas sparks novels that have been adapted into film.


· A walk to remember

I watched the lucky one, Dear John, the notebook, safe haven and the best of me without knowing were the inspiration of these movies really came from, then I started asking questions on Google and like everyone else I got answers and I was wowed by what I had discovered, a genius person by the name of Nicholas sparks was behind these awesome romantic movies, it wasn't that hard to figure it

According to Wikipedia there are a lot of other books by Nicholas you can read about them by click here. And like all writers’, inspirations comes from deeper places and emotion is one of them, the novel a walk to remember was inspired by sparks Lewis, Danielle sparks Lewis’s  sister, who later died from cancer in 2000 though most of the story is fictional some parts are so real.
Among all the movie based on his books, it’s hard to choose which one is my favorite but il go for the one I watched last, which is the best of me, though I haven’t read the actual book I hope it is as good as the movie though the ending is so unpredictable probably what makes it awesome.
Here to Nicholas sparks, hope you get all the credit you need from your work and keep the fire burning.

New novels by Nicholas Sparks


Thanks for dropping by, if you like any of the movies or novels by Nicholas sparks please let me know below if not comment with your favorite or romantic novel


quotes on dreams

Dreams are a very important part of our lives, a person without dreams is wasting the precious gifts God gave us, and our created gave us the ability to see things with our minds eye before we can even achieve them, our dreams are the seeds if properly nourished they germinate into reality, without faith our dreams are nothing. Below is a list of quotes about dreams that I hope will help you pursue your dreams before success comes knocking on your door.
  1. Stand often in the company of dreamers. They believe you can achieve impossible things. ― Mary Anne Radmacher
  2. Don’t be afraid of the space between your dreams and reality. If you can dream it, you can make it so. ― Belva Davis
  3. A dream is not something that you wake up from, but something that wakes you up. ― Charlie Hedges
  4. A dream is not something that you wake up from, but something that wakes you up. ― Charlie Hedges
  5. You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream. ― C.S. Lewis
  6. A dream you dream alone is only a dream. A dream you dream together is reality. ― John Lennon
  7. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. ― Eleanor Roosevelt
  8. The key to realizing a dream is to focus not on success but significance - and then even the small steps and little victories along your path will take on greater meaning. ― Oprah Winfrey
  9. The whole life is a succession of dreams. My ambition is to be a conscious dreamer that is all. ― Swami Vivekanada
  10. Hold fast to dreams for if dreams die, life is a broken-winged bird that cannot fly. ― Langston Hughes
  11. I don't dream at night, I dream all day; I dream for a living. ― Steven Spielberg
  12. Ideologies separate us. Dreams and anguish bring us together. ― Eugene Ionesco
  13. I challenge you to be dreamers; I challenge you to be doers and let us make the greatest place in the world even better. ― Brian Schweitzer
  14. All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them. ― Walt Disney
  15. Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. ― Mark Twain
  16. No dreamer is ever too small; no dream is ever too big. ― Anon.
  17. A goal is a dream with a deadline. ― Napoleon Hill
  18. Yes: I am a dreamer. For a dreamer is one who can only find his way by moonlight, and his punishment is that he sees the dawn before the rest of the world. ― Oscar Wilde
  19. Dare to live the life you have dreamed for yourself. Go forward and make your dreams come true. ― Ralph Waldo Emerson
  20. If you can dream it, you can do it. Always remember that this whole thing was started with a dream and a mouse. ― Walt Disney
  21. At first dreams seem impossible, then improbable, then inevitable. ― Chris Reeve
  22. Great dreams of great dreamers are always transcended. ― Abdul Kalam
  23. Commitment leads to action. Action brings your dream closer. ― Marcia Wieder
  24. You see things and you say ‘Why?’ But I dream things that never were and I say ‘Why not?’ ― George Bernard Shaw
  25. I think we dream so we don’t have to be apart for so long. If we’re in each other’s dreams, we can be together all the time. ― A.A. Milne
  26. Champions aren´t made in the gyms. Champions are made from something they have deep inside them –a desire, a dream and a vision. ― Muhammad Ali
  27. It does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live.
     J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone